I could talk about myself all day, but I won't.

My niece is my best friend and the owner of my heart
I love animals
I abhor meat-eaters
I like to lick a little bit 'o labia - courtesy of Lizzy the lezzy
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A magic carpet ride.

I've added a new section at the bottom of every feature for comments. Use them. You're allowed to vote too. Get involved. I insist.

I'm trying to be a real lawyer so I might not have the time to keep you as entertained as I usually do. Be fair! I'm just a little boy!
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Ellen played a bit of YouTube video that rocked my world. I had to investigate her and share my findings. I think she's the coolest chick alive and my future ex-wife. She goes by Karmin on YouTube, but Ellen called her Amy. Whatever her name is, she's talented.

How many sexual partners does it take to root you firmly in whore territory?

More than your age (10 | 55%)
Over 20 (5 | 28%)
Over 10 (3 | 17%)
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"It's a little bit horrifying just how quickly everything can fall to crap. Sometimes, it takes a huge loss to remind you of what you care about the most. Sometimes, you find yourself becoming stronger as a result, wiser, better equipped to deal with the next big disaster that comes along. Sometimes, but not always."



- Meredith -
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Oprah ruined my fun game. That bitch. I'm joking. Some housewife could shank me for saying that. LOVE Oprah. This is Lea T, the world's first tranny supermodel. She's really hot - if we disregard the whole penis thing.
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You know the deal

Manish girl (5 | 28%)
Girly boy (13 | 72%)

Racial tension in the gay community

Before I came out, the only evil I contended with regularly was racism. I thought it was because I live in Pretoria and not so much that the world hasn't changed after all. The racism didn't only come from white people, black people were equally unaccepting of me. I grew up in Durban in a time when English and isiZulu were the most predominantly spoken languages. Moving to Pretoria was a culture shock because not only were the languages I spoke uncommon, but I had to try to learn two new languages - Afrikaans and Sotho. Afrikaans people had no interest in me and the black people believed I was a coconut because I didn't speak their language.

It became very clear that the world was the worst place to be if you were different. I was (and still am) very awkward which made interacting with people difficult. At any point in time there'd be at least three people, wherever I was, who were convinced that I was some sort of abomination. It wasn't that bad because I'm lucky enough to have an indomitable spirit. I surrounded myself with liberal people and found places where no one noticed that I wasn't the perfect little Zulu girl.

After I came out, I learned that some of those "liberal" people weren't actually that liberal and again I was an abomination. Not only was I an awkward black girl, but lesbian had to be added to the list. I knew a few gay people who introduced to me cool hangouts and I was lured into a false sense of security. I finally thought I'd found a community that was accepting. A community where I didn't have a target mark on my back and one on my front. To some extent, I was wrong. The gay community bands together in times of need and joy. A parade to stop correctional rape? Total unity. All the other times, the daily in between times? Everyone fends for themselves. I try to let all my prejudices go because I have first-hand experience of being discriminated against, on several grounds. I just figured this was the theme of the gay community. All-encompassing love and tolerance.

Above being gay, we're humans and humans have issues. But I still believe that we should hold higher standards for ourselves. If you've experienced cold stares when holding your partner's hand in public, don't give me quizzical looks when I hold a white girl's hand. I'm tired of going to ladies' nights and seeing a visible racial divide. Let's not fool ourselves, race means nothing. Our realities are what make us similar. The fact that I'm black isn't a representation of my interests or my background. I grew up in a white area and had mostly white friends till high school. I can't tell you what the latest hip hop song is, but I can't tell you about rock either. I can't say that I have a place in society where I belong, so how can you? If we really want people's opinions of us to change, we have to correct the defects in our own perceptions first. Skin colour is something we have no control of, as is being gay. If we want people to accept that, we have to start acting like it. Let our exemplary behaviour start the revolution.

xoxo
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“You know what really scares me? I liked being fucked up, now more than ever. Is that a kid thing or a family thing?”

- Becca -
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Are relationships really worth it?

Yes (8 | 35%)
No (15 | 65%)
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I wish I could clone Whitney from "The Real L Word". She does all the things that I like. Her dreads are amazing - because they're clean. Piercings, tats - I wouldn't be able to walk away. My version wouldn't be a douche though. And she'd be smarter, maybe even well-spoken - if her DNA wouldn't curdle.
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Kreayshawn is my latest obsession!The cutest pocket white girl ever and she's mad gangsta, son! I love her!
More of my favourite gangsta white bitch, Kreayshawn. I love her. I hope you love her too!
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